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permission to play

Who said you needed permission to play?

As kids we spend our entire days playing, we learn about the world and ourselves through play but at some point, we decide we’re too old to play.

Being called childish as a teenager was a massive insult, so we stopped doing what seemed like fun to prove to our friends and family that we were fully functioning adults.

We feel like everything we do must have a purpose, we must be grown up, sensible and not waste our time being childlike.

Fun is reserved for once you’ve done all the adult stuff, well that’s what we’ve been conditioned to believe.

The sad thing is we lost something special during our childhood. The urge to play just because we wanted too. To get lost in our imaginations for hours on end and to colour and draw just for the sake of it. To write a story, just to see where it would take us and to paint because we loved how the colours interacted.

permission to play

If I handed you pretty markers and tell you to colour something. You’d you probably ask why? What’s the purpose? Is it going to be used in some way when it’s finished?

It’s likely you’d tell me you’ve got more important things to do, such as the housework, a family to look after and a job to do.

But wouldn’t you feel so much better doing that “responsible adult stuff” after you’ve had time to play? How rejuvenating would it be to spend an hour being childlike, getting chance experience the simple wonder and satisfaction of creating something?

Allowing ourselves to play with craft supplies or to create something, tells us so much about ourselves. We are often surprised by the things we like, those we thought we’d love, but don’t and the happy accidents that occur along the way. Creative play gives us the opportunity to see “what if” without it having disastrous consequences. If we don’t like what we’ve created, we can throw it in the bin, lessons learned.

My favourite way to find that wonder and satisfaction is to throw paint down on a Gelli plate (it’s a surface you can use to make prints on) I love it because although I’ve decided the paint colours, I never know how much I’m going to love the print until I lift if off the plate and turn it over.

It really wasn’t that long ago, I barely created anything because I wasn’t sure what or who I was creating it for. Was I going to turn it into a card? Was I going to put it up on the wall? Because I didn’t know the answer to this, I never bothered to start. It was only when I focused on the feelings of surprise and satisfaction that I realised that the purpose of creating anything wasn’t the end product, but the discoveries you learnt along with way.

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you are enough

Are You Enough?

Not clever enough, pretty enough, creative enough, strong enough, thin enough?

Want to take up a new creative hobby? Your brain goes, “I’m not imaginative enough”. Want to feel great in your new jeans? Brain pops in waving, hey we’re not thin enough.

It’s so bloody damaging

“I’m not enough”.

It’s probably the most destructive thought you’ve ever had. It’s a tricky monster, as it disguises itself every way it possibly can. Very rarely will it ever appear in its simplest form.

The belief “I’m not (insert whatever here) enough”, will tie you up in a straight jacket, forever limiting you.

These thoughts don’t serve you. They limit you, more than you will ever realise. You might be surprised to know that they affect everyone, including those who have the world at their feet.

Want to know how this belief affects people who you would consider super successful, check out this youtube video.

 

But I’ve carried this thought for decades, can I really change it?

The great things about beliefs are that they’re just thoughts you’ve practised. You’ve practised this one for a while but that doesn’t mean you have to keep doing it. Instead, you need to practise the new belief that you want to have. I am creative enough, I am clever enough, I am ENOUGH.

    • Will your thinking change overnight? no,
    • Will it be hard? No,
    • Will it be a lot of effort? god no!
    • Do you need to know why or when this belief began? Noooooooo

All you need to do is remind yourself that you are enough, just as you are.  It took many experiences over decades to create the belief that you’re not enough. You don’t need to wait decades to make a change. Little reminders in your daily life goes a long way, so here are a few printables to get you started.

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These are A4 size but you can resize them to fit your needs.