Sometimes, we just feel stuck! We know we need to make decisions, we know we need to move things forward in our lives but we’re not really sure what the next step is.
We don’t seem to be really drawn to anything or nothing really speaks to us and we just feel blank and stuck.
And I think that is normal quite a lot of the time. Simply because we’ve been conditioned to not put our own needs first. So, we don’t really spend time thinking about what we want and if we don’t know what we want how can we ever move towards it?
So, I’ve put together a list of questions. These are simple questions just to get you out of that “feeling stuck” mood and more into an “I think I might have an idea where I want to go” mood.
So, I think the most important question is, why do you feel stuck?
Maybe something in your self-talk is making you feel stuck. Reminding yourself that you’re stuck and you don’t know what to do – is actually keeping you stuck exactly where you are. Your brain is programmed to believe everything you say to it. Instead of telling yourself that you’re stuck, try telling yourself that you’re excited about the burst of inspiration that’s on it way.
Do you have to make a decision right this second?
Do you really need to know at this very second in time what you need to do? Or would this be easier if you were in a better mood?
It might be possible for now, just for now, maybe for the next five minutes, the next ten minutes, maybe even the next twenty-four hours what others might see as “shoving your head in the sand” might be the right thing for you to do.
Give yourself time to regroup and recharge. Once you’ve cleared your head, the obvious solution usually appears as an ah ha moment.
Do you feel stuck because you don’t know what the next step is?
Maybe you feel stuck because you obsessing about what the next step is so you feel paralysed.
So Start thinking about what it is you want in the long run.
Do you want to feel better about yourself?
Do you want to have more free time?
Do you want to get better at creating art?
Do you want to get better at, being you?
Do you want to feel more like you again?
Once you start to think about what it is you actually want as opposed to just feeling stuck, you might just get that inspiration you need to get unstuck and the next step will simply flow.
How are your personal beliefs keeping you feeling stuck?
Our parents shape our beliefs. My mother always taught me that I could be anything I wanted, but it made me feel stuck because it gave me too many possibilities. I didn’t know which one to take. I kept thinking “What if I get the wrong one?” Do you have a personal belief that it stopping you from making a decision? Was there something you were told constantly as a child that impacts your ability to make one? A common one that makes people feel stuck is money and if you’ve heard the phrases such as “money doesn’t grow on trees” then many of your thoughts will be influenced by the belief that there isn’t enough money.
Do you feel like you’re not good at making decisions?
Have you made any decision in the past which had disastrous consequences? This reinforces the belief that you’re not good at making decisions or that you always make wrong ones. Turn this past situation on its head and take a look at the positives that came out it. Look for them, they are there.
Still feeling stuck?
After asking yourself all these questions, are you able to move to a place where you feel more confident about making decisions?
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